Lies...

Lies
You always do not know when or where someone is going to come up with a lie and tell it to you for you to believe that it's the truth...an untrue statement with an intent to deceive, that's what it is. A lie can entirely burn a place, the rage that one has after realizing that they have been lied to make their blood boil.
But why should we lie instead of just telling the truth? I have come to learn that people lie for various reasons:
   *For protection from punishment
   *To avoid embarrassment
   *To hide an awkward situation or get out of an awkward situation
   *Win admiration from others
   * Exercise power over others
   *Maintain privacy
   Protect one'self from physical harm
Apart from all these reasons given above, we will look at why people lie in a relationship. Most relationship always run smoothly until a lie pops in and ruins everything.
Why do people really lie in relationships?
   *To save themselves or reputation
   *To protect their egos 
   *To protect their image 
   *To avoid hurting partners feelings
Relationships should be based entirely on trust. People who lie repeatedly always have a desire to be in control and may also worry they won't be respected if the truth make them look bad. Instead they tell a lie that casts them in good light.
Some people have that feeling that they are always being told a lie and digging deeper to find the actual truth is what most people do because lies erode trust and confidence.

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